Trading sex for adventure, tickets and housework
Filed under: Sex Sells, College, Extracurriculars
I'm not exactly sure about the definition of a moral compass but I was surprised to read a a college woman trading 2 weeks of sex for a guided jungle tour down in Brazil. It's an adventure she has no qualms about since in her mind all of the involved parties benefited. In trading her feminine charms for a service she wasn't alone, a recent survey of students at the University of Michigan found that 27% of men and 14% of women had offered services or items in exchange for sex. While I found these numbers to be high I wondered where the line was drawn. When you are in college and not in a committed relationship, aren't 75% of your actions revolving around sex? Does it count if you help that cute coed with her psychology homework or treat her to a Dave Matthews Band concert and get lucky later that night? I thought most people considered that a successful date rather than a transaction of goods for "goodies"!
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FILES - A sign reading: "I'll be right back" is displayed next to an interview room in a branch of Germany's federal employment agency, the Bundesagentur fuer Arbeit, in Berlin on July 15, 2008. German unemployment fell further in August, but the biggest European economy is flirting with recession and its job market will probably feel the effects later this year, analysts said on August 28, 2008. AFP PHOTO / JOHN MACDOUGALL (Photo credit should read JOHN MACDOUGALL/AFP/Getty Images)
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A small pet dog is presented during the third annual Pet Fashion Week August 23, 2008 in New York City. It's a dog's life during hard economic times. But Chihuahuas in a tutu? Pugs in designer tank-tops? Dachshunds draped in Swarovski bling? That was the scene at the third annual Pet Fashion Week in Manhattan this past weekend, where despite a looming US recession, the world's dog-loving fashionistas gathered to share ideas, market their products, strut a canine catwalk and raise money for charity. At a time when department stores are suffering from shrinking sales of clothing, shoes and accessories such as handbags, those in the pet fashion industry are thriving, thanks to dog-loving elites and the buying impulses of millions of other pet owners. AFP PHOTO (Photo credit should read -/AFP/Getty Images)
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A small pet dog is presented during the third annual Pet Fashion Week August 23, 2008 in New York City. It's a dog's life during hard economic times. But Chihuahuas in a tutu? Pugs in designer tank-tops? Dachshunds draped in Swarovski bling? That was the scene at the third annual Pet Fashion Week in Manhattan this past weekend, where despite a looming US recession, the world's dog-loving fashionistas gathered to share ideas, market their products, strut a canine catwalk and raise money for charity. At a time when department stores are suffering from shrinking sales of clothing, shoes and accessories such as handbags, those in the pet fashion industry are thriving, thanks to dog-loving elites and the buying impulses of millions of other pet owners. AFP PHOTO (Photo credit should read -/AFP/Getty Images)
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A small pet dog is presented during the third annual Pet Fashion Week August 23, 2008 in New York City. It's a dog's life during hard economic times. But Chihuahuas in a tutu? Pugs in designer tank-tops? Dachshunds draped in Swarovski bling? That was the scene at the third annual Pet Fashion Week in Manhattan this past weekend, where despite a looming US recession, the world's dog-loving fashionistas gathered to share ideas, market their products, strut a canine catwalk and raise money for charity. At a time when department stores are suffering from shrinking sales of clothing, shoes and accessories such as handbags, those in the pet fashion industry are thriving, thanks to dog-loving elites and the buying impulses of millions of other pet owners. AFP PHOTO (Photo credit should read -/AFP/Getty Images)
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A small pet dog is presented during the third annual Pet Fashion Week August 23, 2008 in New York City. It's a dog's life during hard economic times. But Chihuahuas in a tutu? Pugs in designer tank-tops? Dachshunds draped in Swarovski bling? That was the scene at the third annual Pet Fashion Week in Manhattan this past weekend, where despite a looming US recession, the world's dog-loving fashionistas gathered to share ideas, market their products, strut a canine catwalk and raise money for charity. At a time when department stores are suffering from shrinking sales of clothing, shoes and accessories such as handbags, those in the pet fashion industry are thriving, thanks to dog-loving elites and the buying impulses of millions of other pet owners. AFP PHOTO (Photo credit should read -/AFP/Getty Images)
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A small pet dog is presented during the third annual Pet Fashion Week August 23, 2008 in New York City. It's a dog's life during hard economic times. But Chihuahuas in a tutu? Pugs in designer tank-tops? Dachshunds draped in Swarovski bling? That was the scene at the third annual Pet Fashion Week in Manhattan this past weekend, where despite a looming US recession, the world's dog-loving fashionistas gathered to share ideas, market their products, strut a canine catwalk and raise money for charity. At a time when department stores are suffering from shrinking sales of clothing, shoes and accessories such as handbags, those in the pet fashion industry are thriving, thanks to dog-loving elites and the buying impulses of millions of other pet owners. AFP PHOTO (Photo credit should read -/AFP/Getty Images)
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A small pet dog is presented during the third annual Pet Fashion Week August 23, 2008 in New York City. It's a dog's life during hard economic times. But Chihuahuas in a tutu? Pugs in designer tank-tops? Dachshunds draped in Swarovski bling? That was the scene at the third annual Pet Fashion Week in Manhattan this past weekend, where despite a looming US recession, the world's dog-loving fashionistas gathered to share ideas, market their products, strut a canine catwalk and raise money for charity. At a time when department stores are suffering from shrinking sales of clothing, shoes and accessories such as handbags, those in the pet fashion industry are thriving, thanks to dog-loving elites and the buying impulses of millions of other pet owners. AFP PHOTO (Photo credit should read -/AFP/Getty Images)
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BEIJING - AUGUST 22: Chinese workers operate a real estate company at the Central Business District on August 22, 2008 in Beijing, China. Chinese officials have reiterated that Beijing will not experience economic recession after the Olympic Games as predicted by many economists. The Beijing Olympics will end on August 24. (Photo by Andrew Wong/Getty Images)
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BEIJING - AUGUST 22: Chinese cyclists ride across a junction at the Central Business District on August 22, 2008 in Beijing, China. Chinese officials have reiterated that Beijing will not experience economic recession after the Olympic Games as predicted by many economists. The Beijing Olympics will end on August 24. (Photo by Andrew Wong/Getty Images)
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BEIJING - AUGUST 22: A man talks on his mobile phone as he stands in front of the new headquarters of China Central Television under construction at Central Business District on August 22, 2008 in Beijing, China. Chinese officials have reiterated that Beijing will not experience economic recession after the Olympic Games as predicted by many economists. The Beijing Olympics will end on August 24. (Photo by Andrew Wong/Getty Images)
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While society as a whole may find this reprehensible, I think at the very least it shows that our college students are paying attention in class. After all, aren't they simply realizing the effects of supply and demand as well as what scarcity do to a market? Sure a student job is a better way to earn enough money to get by in college and it doesn't involve a walk of shame in the morning but then you'd have to stick to a schedule and be under control of "the man". That said, I don't think we're destined to eschew paper money for a more universal currency anytime in the near future.
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Reader Comments (Page 1 of 12)
8-27-2008 @ 2:25PM
Robert said...
I have taken many wonderful women on trips to locations around the world. In some cases, the trips were with woman I had never had a previous date (we lived in different cities).
Once at the destination it was not uncommon for us to engage in mutual sexual pleasure. Would the women have gotten the trip without having sex with me? Yes.
I assume the women enjoyed the trip and the sex. It is my hope that they found pleasure in both. Heck, when they agreed to a second trip I was sure they enjoyed both the trip and the sex.
In sum, did the women take the free trip in exchange for sex? Probably not. But, then again if we had gone down to our local McDonalds and caught a cheap movie the adventure and sex would not have been as great.
I guess the saying, "there is no such thing as a free lunch," could be changed to "there is no such thing as free sex!"
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8-28-2008 @ 10:05PM
Karen said...
Too many ladies gave it away for nothing in the days of sex, drugs and rock and roll. A joint isn't anything, and the woman most often turned the guy on to everything. Women were far more liberated in the 60's. "Hey, You look familiar" "Aren't you in my math class?" "Let's go to a hotel/motel and do it." Most guys knew very little about female anatomy. They wanted women to be compliant, meeting their needs They probably still don't care .Whatever happened to drug free inventiveness, and marital lust?
8-28-2008 @ 10:30PM
bon said...
I am so sorry, When you are just the 2 of u, it gets better and better!! Especially after you have raised the kids! Kids moved out 2 weeks ago, and we are like newly weds again!
9-07-2008 @ 5:52PM
Ricky said...
What a hoot. Dude, this isn't a forum to post your fantasies. I'm still laughing.
8-27-2008 @ 3:15PM
Sue said...
If a man I liked wanted to take me on a trip and all I needed to do was sleep with him.......my bags are packed.
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8-28-2008 @ 9:40PM
David said...
Sue: I think I am falling in Lust With You!!!
8-28-2008 @ 10:11PM
Sue said...
I'm with you sister!!!
8-28-2008 @ 10:26PM
terry hall said...
Hello Sue! we have to meet!
8-29-2008 @ 6:59AM
hurley said...
Sue, you wanna go camping? ;-)
8-29-2008 @ 7:06AM
james said...
Hi Sue,
Who are u? like to get to know u... lol
9-03-2008 @ 11:04AM
Beard said...
Sue,
What a mature attitude! I, too, have met women on the internet, arranged a trip, and we had a wonderful time. How many things in life "expect" sex as part of the encounter, but pretend that it isn't expected. As Ron said above, sex isn't required: I don't think that many of us would enjoy "required" sex anyway, but if 2 people are enjoying each others' company for a trip, why stop when you get to the bedroom.
So. If one of you ladies would like to discuss sharing some travel, let's talk.
8-29-2008 @ 11:35AM
Rod said...
Pack your bags!!
8-29-2008 @ 3:06PM
Jane said...
Wow Sue. Those are some terrific morals you have there. Talk about a lack of self worth! Get a job, go on your own trips and let's hope you don't teach your kids that in the future.
8-29-2008 @ 3:15PM
Joe said...
Sue, you to join me in Clearwater Beach?
9-23-2008 @ 9:25PM
Romeo said...
Sue, Where would you like to go? And When??
8-27-2008 @ 3:25PM
Jonathan said...
Whoring is whoring. Don't write a cutesy article about it unless you think the idea of your mother, sister or daughter *edit* guys for plane fare is also cute. If you do think so, you're wrong.
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8-29-2008 @ 7:07AM
Susan said...
Wow,
So judgmental and all in black and white. So is "marrying for money" whoring? It would seem it is, only it lasts a lot longer than two weeks.
What about the two floosies who are on Hugh Hefner's show on tv? I assume that's whoring.
What about the female TV anchor who has to sit on the tall stool with a short skirt on, while the man gets to sit behind a desk for his stories. Is that whoring?
It's a fine line really. At least this woman didn't pretend it was a "date" or a "relationship". I think people fool themselves into believing they have better motives than they actually have.
8-27-2008 @ 3:26PM
Mike said...
Wow! When I think that after we die, we must give an EXACT accounting of EVERY detail of our lives to God, I'm wodering what His attitude will be toward the Brazilian jungle tour prostitute, Robert, and Sue. By the tone of the article, perhaps Josh Smith needs a spiritual reality check as well. To think that the potential for eternal damnation is only an airline ticket away is very depressing. May God have mercy on you all. I will pray for you.
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8-27-2008 @ 8:18PM
Josh Smith said...
It was more enjoyable to poke fun at this "trend" than it would be to pass along my morals onto the blog readership.
Also, WalletPop is a great place to pick up financial tips but I'm not sure that we're the best place to come for moral leadership ;-).
8-28-2008 @ 10:12PM
debbie franks said...
i agree 120% mike people now are only living for the moment,
but we are all a breath away from death. and this life will be
over. Doesnt make any sense to me its very sad, what about
diseases like hiv does that not matter to people anymore.
there has got to be more to this life than just living for the
moment. I pray that God will draw you by his spirit and save
those who dont know Christ as there personal savior.
God loves you all and its not his will that anybody perrish.
most people say that God wont send anybody to hell. but he
is not you are sending yourselves by living the way you are.
God sent his only son and you dont have to die like this and
spend eternity in hell. if you go there you will go as an intruder
God bless you all repent before its too late.